Okay now! This is just a warm up post on my part...so..yeah, I am back! (as though had been very active early! :D )
Still, wanted to blog from a long long time..finally hopefully I am going to be a regular here...
So till I come with a good post..toodles! B)
Monday, October 4, 2010
Thursday, October 25, 2007
Today writing this post just to help myself think clearly. Feeling somewhat low.... dont know why i cant help feeling like this every now and then...
as though a time comes when everybody decides to show their true self...
i dont understand is it really stupid not to give any hard response to those who intentionally try to hurt you or think ill of you... dunno why but now its really hurting me, to think that how much truth about myself i've disclosed to others.. noone but oneself is one's best friend...
because even if not to hurt you, but people think that you are not sensible or strong enough to keep your thoughts to yourself...
as such it's true... this is so because i cant keep everything to myself. i mean i cant hide anything from anybody... it feels to me as though i m hiding or running away from myself.....
but i guess one needs to be practical and smart enough to deal with people this world is filled with.. even your best friends might not be with you..... everyone has got one's problems and one's own life to deal with.. who has got time for others??
vaise bhi today only i read something said by General Colin Powell, Chairman (Ret), Joint Chiefs of Staff said : "Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity: you'll avoid the tough decisions, you'll avoid confronting the people who need to be confronted, and you'll avoid offering differential rewards based on differential performance because some people might get upset."
This is quite a different concept i came to read about.. and perhaps it's true.. one needs to hold some dignity- fake it till u make it.
i don't mean to say that i have no self-respect but then i am not much of an egoist.
and what i've found out is that people who don't get easily offended are those who are always taken for granted..
sick but true :
anyways, i think this dilemma is always gonna be there as long as one lives... regarding how to act, what to act, when to act, what is true, what is correct and what's not..!
at the end of the day i feel no matter what the hell others think, it's always better to be true to yourself. this is what holds utmost importance..
People are unreasonable, illogical and self centered.
Love them anyway
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway
If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway
People really need help but may attack you if you help them.
Help people anyway
Give the world the best you've got and it may never be enough.
Give the world the best you've got ANYWAY!
as though a time comes when everybody decides to show their true self...
i dont understand is it really stupid not to give any hard response to those who intentionally try to hurt you or think ill of you... dunno why but now its really hurting me, to think that how much truth about myself i've disclosed to others.. noone but oneself is one's best friend...
because even if not to hurt you, but people think that you are not sensible or strong enough to keep your thoughts to yourself...
as such it's true... this is so because i cant keep everything to myself. i mean i cant hide anything from anybody... it feels to me as though i m hiding or running away from myself.....
but i guess one needs to be practical and smart enough to deal with people this world is filled with.. even your best friends might not be with you..... everyone has got one's problems and one's own life to deal with.. who has got time for others??
vaise bhi today only i read something said by General Colin Powell, Chairman (Ret), Joint Chiefs of Staff said : "Trying to get everyone to like you is a sign of mediocrity: you'll avoid the tough decisions, you'll avoid confronting the people who need to be confronted, and you'll avoid offering differential rewards based on differential performance because some people might get upset."
This is quite a different concept i came to read about.. and perhaps it's true.. one needs to hold some dignity- fake it till u make it.
i don't mean to say that i have no self-respect but then i am not much of an egoist.
and what i've found out is that people who don't get easily offended are those who are always taken for granted..
sick but true :
anyways, i think this dilemma is always gonna be there as long as one lives... regarding how to act, what to act, when to act, what is true, what is correct and what's not..!
at the end of the day i feel no matter what the hell others think, it's always better to be true to yourself. this is what holds utmost importance..
People are unreasonable, illogical and self centered.
Love them anyway
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives.
Do good anyway
If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway
People really need help but may attack you if you help them.
Help people anyway
Give the world the best you've got and it may never be enough.
Give the world the best you've got ANYWAY!
Saturday, October 13, 2007
thank you God for everything.........
I can't believe that finally i am done with all my thought process of making the blog and have finally made my own blog! So now here goes my first post.........
This post is to thank God for everything... This being my first post, I had decided that if I'll get the desirable result in my exams, I will write to thank God.
I know it sounds extremely selfish, but this time I was completely relying on God and on my family's blessings for my results... had done everything that i could have to screw up my exams...!!
Thank you God for everything... thank you for such a loving and caring family.... for so understanding and true friends and for everything else!
I have always felt that I manage to end up really well no matter what! I mean I just happen to make the right choices, meet the right people and just take correct decisions! Even if I happen to be in a situation in which I don't want to be, at last it turns out to be for my good.. I always feel that everything happens because it has to. Sometimes it's like that I don't even have an idea what I will do in a particular situation, but at last I witness a perfect result!
In all I have always felt that tomorrow is beautiful......... certainly better than today. I have an immense faith in God and i feel that he is always there to look for us and answers our prayers if we are true from our heart.
Please god always bless me and my family and everybody else... Always take care of everything and make us realise and fulfil the purpose of our lives.......
As in this post I am thanking God, here's a short story i read a few days back...
It's titled "What happens In Heaven ???"
Here it goes:
I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received." I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.
Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section. The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them." I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to Earth.
Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing. "This is the Acknowledgment Section" my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed "How is it that? There's no work going on here?" I asked. "So sad", the angel sighed. "After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments. " How does one acknowledge God's blessings?" I asked. "Simple," the angel answered. "Just say, "Thank you, God." "What blessings should they acknowledge?" I asked. "If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of this world. "If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy. "And if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity."
Touching, isn't it?? Well, if on reading this, you are going to thank God atleast once a day, then only this story is worth reading.... otherwise it's simply another timepass crap we come across mostly everyday!
Anyways, as this is my first post of my first blog, i would really love to have comments from anyone (IF anybody really reads this! lol) who reads this.....
This post is to thank God for everything... This being my first post, I had decided that if I'll get the desirable result in my exams, I will write to thank God.
I know it sounds extremely selfish, but this time I was completely relying on God and on my family's blessings for my results... had done everything that i could have to screw up my exams...!!
Thank you God for everything... thank you for such a loving and caring family.... for so understanding and true friends and for everything else!
I have always felt that I manage to end up really well no matter what! I mean I just happen to make the right choices, meet the right people and just take correct decisions! Even if I happen to be in a situation in which I don't want to be, at last it turns out to be for my good.. I always feel that everything happens because it has to. Sometimes it's like that I don't even have an idea what I will do in a particular situation, but at last I witness a perfect result!
In all I have always felt that tomorrow is beautiful......... certainly better than today. I have an immense faith in God and i feel that he is always there to look for us and answers our prayers if we are true from our heart.
Please god always bless me and my family and everybody else... Always take care of everything and make us realise and fulfil the purpose of our lives.......
As in this post I am thanking God, here's a short story i read a few days back...
It's titled "What happens In Heaven ???"
Here it goes:
I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around. We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, "This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received." I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.
Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section. The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section. Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them." I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard at that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packaged for delivery to Earth.
Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing. "This is the Acknowledgment Section" my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed "How is it that? There's no work going on here?" I asked. "So sad", the angel sighed. "After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgments. " How does one acknowledge God's blessings?" I asked. "Simple," the angel answered. "Just say, "Thank you, God." "What blessings should they acknowledge?" I asked. "If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep you are richer than 75% of this world. "If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy. "And if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity."
Touching, isn't it?? Well, if on reading this, you are going to thank God atleast once a day, then only this story is worth reading.... otherwise it's simply another timepass crap we come across mostly everyday!
Anyways, as this is my first post of my first blog, i would really love to have comments from anyone (IF anybody really reads this! lol) who reads this.....
Saturday, September 1, 2007
why do we laugh ON others?
hi... blogging today after a looong time... i was planning to write something else but then as i was feeling deeply regarding this topic, so thought that i should pen it down first....
i have got a younger sister. she is in school.
in her school, they were having competitions for the selection in different sports. she plays basketball and so she too went to try her hand out...
some girls were standing out there watching everybody perform and giving their expert comments (inspite of not even having enough courage to take part themselves..)
there my darling sis also took part in long jump..
unfortunately she fall short by a few centimeters. and those gold medalists(in making fun of others) started laughing.
this seems to be such a small incidence.. it definitely wouldn't have made any impact on many people's lives.. but my sis had to fight back her tears at the moment. she felt so bad that she even told me that she is never going to take part in sports again.
this was a heart-break for me..
touchwood she plays whenever she wants to even now.. but then it's not that often..
maybe because of the work-load that has increased manyfolds..
but then deep within, i still hope that the incident i've stated has got nothing to do with it.
it takes a moment to make fun of others but to the person, it might take whole life to come out of that guilt and embarrassment to which he was actually no reason at all! alas, if world was blessed with more people who are considerate towards others....
i have got a younger sister. she is in school.
in her school, they were having competitions for the selection in different sports. she plays basketball and so she too went to try her hand out...
some girls were standing out there watching everybody perform and giving their expert comments (inspite of not even having enough courage to take part themselves..)
there my darling sis also took part in long jump..
unfortunately she fall short by a few centimeters. and those gold medalists(in making fun of others) started laughing.
this seems to be such a small incidence.. it definitely wouldn't have made any impact on many people's lives.. but my sis had to fight back her tears at the moment. she felt so bad that she even told me that she is never going to take part in sports again.
this was a heart-break for me..
touchwood she plays whenever she wants to even now.. but then it's not that often..
maybe because of the work-load that has increased manyfolds..
but then deep within, i still hope that the incident i've stated has got nothing to do with it.
it takes a moment to make fun of others but to the person, it might take whole life to come out of that guilt and embarrassment to which he was actually no reason at all! alas, if world was blessed with more people who are considerate towards others....
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